I did a lot more talking today than earlier this week, particularly with co-workers and I have a nebulous feeling I may have complained, but it’s very vague–I can’t point to anything specific, even as I recall a conversation in which I expressed concerns about certain things. These weren’t complaints because I readily admitted to the benefits of said things, while also pointing out that certain aspects were left unaddressed. I thought aloud about possible solutions, trying to remain positive.
And that was as close to complaining as I got, so I think I got through Day 5 intact. I did hear others complaint, but in response I either grunted noncommittally (I should practice this in the mirror to get it just right) or I’d find some positive aspect to highlight instead.
Example:
Grumpy person: Oh look, it’s raining again. What a surprise!
Me: Umbrella vendors must be making record profits.
Grumpy person: …
I’m going to chalk this up as Day 5 with no complaints. If the weather is better next week, I’ll be cautiously optimistic that I’ll keep my streak going.
